Mo'nique Mo'nique Mo'nique...

I tried to stay away from this because really how do you start??? I do think this is a touchy topic but hey you asked for it... Apparentely Mon'ique's brother molested her when she was younger then contacted Oprah to put all the business out there!!! I mean really? I do feel like he was doing using the oprah show as a forum to gain some kind of publicity but then i could be wrong who knows? To read the full story and get Mon'ique's take on it make sure you click

Gerald actually made the first move and called Oprah asking her if he could appear on the show,” a source close to Mo’Nique told RadarOnline. “So, Oprah called Mo’Nique to see if she was okay about him appearing on her show to discuss the abuse and although she was not entirely happy about it she gave Oprah her blessing.”

Imes said he decided to appear on Winfrey’s show to apologize to Mo’Nique and bring their family back together. Imes said he himself was molested and he was using drugs and alcohol at age 11.

“I abused and betrayed the trust of another sibling, my sister, my blood sister, I’m sorry, Mo’Nique. I’m sorry,” Imes said on the program. “Hopefully somewhere, somehow as siblings we can come back together as brother and sister.”

However, instead of helping her relationship with her family, the Oprah interview only made the strain between Mo’Nique and both her brother and her parents, who also appeared on the episode, worse than ever.

“Oprah and Mo’Nique were never the best of friends…” the source added. “She was particularly upset that Gerald lied to Oprah that he molested her while she was sleeping because she was wide awake and scared of him.

“Also, she is angry that he did not get any help or enter a rehab and she does not trust him around children.

“Oprah asked her to appear on her show again for another interview but at this point she has declined the invitation.

“If anything it has made the situation worse between Mo’Nique and her family and she doesn’t know if she will ever speak to them again now.”


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My poor HUBBY {Idris Elba}

Now ypu know I can't have my babe sick and I not be there to heal him!!!!! :(

Idris Elba is sporting a cast on his leg after injuring his foot playing soccer. The Wire star hobbled on to the stage on crutches for Jonathan Ross’ chat show on Friday (16Apr10) with a plastic cast on his left leg. Elba told the host he fell during a game of soccer – but wishes his injury had been more dramatic.

He jokes, “Well I was training for the England squad! I was playing a little football and tore my Achilles. I was going to tell you I was climbing up a volcano but I wasn’t. I was about to score when he (a friend) caught me from the back.”
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Vivian Green {April 6th}

Vivian Green is BACK!! April 6th I will be in the building getting this too. Her new album is entitled BEAUTIFUL!! Here is her newest song "Beautiful" First Monica then Usher then Ms. Badu and now Ms. Green???? It is very safe to say that good music is coming back with a vengeance!!! I freakin LOVE IT!!!! YESSSSSS!!!! She is soooo pretty! I love her!!! {Source}

Erykah Badu {Window Seat}

Thanks to Bossip here is the video for Window Seat!! I am really feeling this song! This video is so Ms. Badu kind of confused at the fact that she ends it by being Naked and shot but hey if you like it I LOVE IT!! SN: I had no clue her butt so was soooo BIG! Welcome back Erykah Badu!! :)

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Monica n Rocko break-up {TEARS!!!!}

Monica has confirmed per her twitter page that her and Rocko are no more!!! per Roc4Life Atlanta singer Monica confirmed on her Twitter account @MonicaMyLife that she and rapper Rocko have broken up. Unlike most public breakups, Monica managed to keep it private and respectful without dissing Rocko and the cause of the breakup.


“Thank u everyone for all the love your sending. @Rocko4Realis a great father and we will continue to love and parent our children. The Rest is a private matter between @Rocko4Realis and I. He is a good person. We all make mistakes. Even separated we will always be family.I say thank u again to u all. And as I live and learn I grow. Don’t feel sorry for me just pray for me. Gods got it. Have a great day."



Do you understand why I love her so much? She is such a Jazzy chick who always does things in a super professional manner. Never to put anyone out there even when they might disrespect her she still keeps it so funky and jazzy all at the same time! You go MONICA!!!!! To go down memory lane with Monica and Rocko via pictures make sure you click

My Love Letter...

Dear Love,
I love everything about you!! I have been in love with you since I can remember. Many have tried to take your place, some still do to this day but there is something special and rare about you that keeps me coming back to you. The way you smile sends chills all through me. Your passion for music is so refreshing. You don’t pretend to have all the answers, and can admit when you are wrong. The strong way you hold me. The comfort you give when I am sick. The way you feel my soul when I need you most, the man that you are… so protective and strong!! You aren’t afraid to show emotions but still strong with it. I sit and wonder what I did to deserve you and realize what I was lacking when I didn't have you! You make me feel so safe and secure. I long to be next to you every moment of the day and night. I think of all the selfishness I go through because I want you all to myself. Alas… I know that I have to let your light shine with others but it’s so easy to get lost in the comfort, the PURE ESSENCE of you. I wonder how someone could make me feel this way for so long. My undying love and affection for you is sometimes overwhelming and scary… It’s only natural that I get scared and want to run and hide as these feelings can get the best of me. If only you were mine and only mine it would be something like perfect in my mind. If that day never comes to know that I was loved by you and vice versa is enough for me! To have experienced you and know LOVE from you is enough to last my heart forever. You deserve for me to CATER 2 U, because I BELIEVE in us! I believe in the man you are. I have watched you transform from a boy to a man. Thru whatever life has thrown at you; you have remained a strong black man! If I had all the time and space in the world I still couldn't thank GOD enough from bringing you and keeping you here with me. For my blessing of True Love I give THANKS!!! Enjoy these songs because more than I can write it music describes any situation, and if no one else knows music you definitely know how music expresses any situation!

LOVE!!!

Prison Rape {WOOOOOOW!!!!}

I don't even know what to say I mean I am at a total lost for words. First off the men doing the raping are DISGUSTING!!! They sitting up there talking like they talking about the weather or something. I mean Rape is horrible but not only are you raping but your raping MEN. I have thought about this time and time again and I don't think that sex is that important that I will rape someone for it. I can go WITHOUT! This partial documentary sheds some light on a lot of things. I have got to see the whole thing. Sorry if this offends but hey it's time to get real. All the way REAL!

Lil Kim's Make up {TOM fOOLERY oF tHE dAY}

I thought I was the only one who saw this disaster of a chick for what it was... but lol this chick hit the nail on the head. This video is a tutorial of how to apply your make up just like LiL {Disgusting} Kim! Check out the comparison picture below. Was she right or was she right? He He He...