Let Love Find A Way... {Titles}

The DILEMMA: He says "Be patient, I promise it's real." She says "give me a title or I'm OUT" Even if he's "Dream Guy, do I stay or let go?"

Whats in the title? I have been in relationships where we were soooo good, then when we gave it a title it went to hell. I've witnessed couples who were perfect as a "couple" but when they decided to take it to the next level and get married, "EVERYTHING CHANGED!!"

We tend to put labels on things for the outsiders looking in. Especially for other women we have to say we ARE something as a unit, just for the other girls not to have you and your life to gossip about. Its one thing to be happy but I don't think we always need a definition for everything, the best things in life aren't forced and they just go with the flow.

Me and My "him" were at our best when I wasn't worried about anything or anybody. At one point in time I started trying to define us and I was putting pressure on us to be more then what we were. When we were flowing we were happy, HAPPY HAPPY!! Then I started listening to those around me, digging for stuff that wasn't there putting unnecessary pressure on us almost ending us. Of course we found our way back, but I won't make that mistake again!!

Titles don't make or break anything! Who cares about the title more then likely the title puts you up to the worlds standards of where your "relationship" should be at. Go with your own flow, let the chips fall where they may. Knowing that you decided to do everything on your own in your world makes your situation even more better! Choosing to smile and separate yourself from the world is going to make the LOVE just that much better!

It's 2011 make your own rules! Take your own life into your own hands! I promise you title or no title as long as it's you and them against the world you will always be happy and REMAIN that way!!

xo :)

Matters of the {HEART} vs {LIE}...

Is there a difference in LIES? A simple little needless lie could mess up everything beautiful to you. A beautiful bond you have with someone can disappear after one lie! I lied to my "him"! I have no doubt he's lied to me before and I've witnessed it just never said anything. He has trust issues and although he may not have trusted me with everything, I feel like he did feel that I was the one important person in his life that he could trust more then most! Now I lied about something soooo small and he can't get it out of his head! I wish there was a way I could have a do over and just tell him the truth but I can't!!

There is so much about us that is wrong, I know it can't last forever but we were happy!! The closest to being happy I have ever been. So many people survive from lies and become bigger and better then ever, but we aren't most people. It bothers me to have put us in this position but we're here! I tried to make him trust me by saying it was so small and blah, blah, blah... But truth is I was wrong!!! It was a LIE! I tried to apologize but he has no reason to forgive me. The fact that I know I lied and his reaction to people who lie to him makes me know I gotta let go... I don't know if this would be Sabotage but I don't want him to wonder if every time I open my mouth I'm just lying! I don't want him to doubt me!

I honestly don't know what to do and I am tired of trying to wreck my brain. The right thing to do is to just let him go because I KNOW HIM!! I don't want the awkward feelings that's coming next. I don't wanna be afraid to even speak not knowing what he is thinking! But "MY HEART WON'T DO WHAT MY MIND TELL'S IT TO..."

Its so funny because I was just talking to him about how much better we are and with one sentence I ruined our progression, and I just can't go back to square 1!



Matters of the heart are ALWAYS the hardest!

I wish I could just know that he will forgive and forget, but its just not realistic...

#LIFE

Dying in the name of {LOVE...}

 
   Sooo I was watching Grey's Anatomy and there were two young adults on their both have multiple sclerosis. According to the show if both of them have Multiple Sclerosis they can't date because its only contagious between them. Loving each other will always keep them sick!!! The guy was up for new lungs but he had to choose between his love life or new lungs and he had to think about it. The doctor gave him an ultimatum and he went with the lungs. They knew he was going to go back to his girlfriend after he healed.

  I really thought about this what would i do? Would I leave what seems to be the love of my life, or would I leave him all together and try starting a new life without my "soul mate?" Being the chick that I am and how much LOVE impacts my world I would be devastated, but I'd choose life. I believe GOD does everything for a reason and the fact that loving him would kill me would be a sign from GOD that he is not my destiny!!

  Love is real, Love is strong, Love is HARD! True Love is worth dying for, but are you really supposed too? What if you made the decision and it was the wrong decision. Now you lost your love and your life!!

What do you think??

Gabrielle Union's Birthday Toast to D. Wade

If this isn't the cutest thing!!! Gabrielle is definitely all smiles!! =)~
Gabrielle Union gave the cutest toast at her boo D. Wade's 29th birthday party! Omgee she kept it so real and for him to be able to tell her "when her tracks are showing" says a lot! They're most definitely comfortable around each other and they LOVE each other! I love CHOCOALATE love!!! =)~


**Smooches**

P.S. Is that a baby bump??? OMGEE she would be sooooo cute peppermint!! =)





She said:

It’s true, he tells me when my tracks aren’t covered. It’s true, he says I think you might want to put some spanx on. It’s true. But more than anything, he’s so considerate, he’s amazing and he’s f**king hot without his clothes on. So tonight I just want to say, baby you’re not yet 30, which damn it I can’t wait until you are because it makes me sound a little bit less of a pervert. You’re
not just an amazing basketball player and team mate. He’s a great man and a great father and I love him because he throws down great dunks and he’s always on ESPN. But love him more because he’s an amazing father and an amazing friend and he’s an amazing man.

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Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas babies!! Thanks for following me all the way from the beginning! 2011 Here we come!!
**smooches**

Monica on her WEDDING!! LOVE!!!

Monica && Shannon on their wedding! I LOVE IT!!!!
**Smooches**

Monica Chit chatting on EVERYTHING!!

YES YES YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE LOVE LOVE Monica!!! In her interview with Rap-up she discusses her relationship with Shannon Brown, her kids && her friendship with Brandy! I so love her!! P.S. SHE WILL BE SITTING COURT SIDE AT THE LAKERS GAME!!! YESS!!!! HANDLE THAT BOO BOO!!!!


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Wale ~ "Ambitious Girl"

I'm in love with your business!...

See I like the person that you are, but I am in love with the person you have the potential to be!...

You'd rather chase your dream than to chase these men; who chase these girls!...

I LOVE IT!!!
*One of many Ambitious GIRLS!!*

Will and Jada (Oprah's couch)

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I have so much love for these two as a couple and as a family in general!! Still sweet and humble and so in love. Barak and Michelle and Will and Jada!!
Smooches

My Love Letter...

Dear Love,
I love everything about you!! I have been in love with you since I can remember. Many have tried to take your place, some still do to this day but there is something special and rare about you that keeps me coming back to you. The way you smile sends chills all through me. Your passion for music is so refreshing. You don’t pretend to have all the answers, and can admit when you are wrong. The strong way you hold me. The comfort you give when I am sick. The way you feel my soul when I need you most, the man that you are… so protective and strong!! You aren’t afraid to show emotions but still strong with it. I sit and wonder what I did to deserve you and realize what I was lacking when I didn't have you! You make me feel so safe and secure. I long to be next to you every moment of the day and night. I think of all the selfishness I go through because I want you all to myself. Alas… I know that I have to let your light shine with others but it’s so easy to get lost in the comfort, the PURE ESSENCE of you. I wonder how someone could make me feel this way for so long. My undying love and affection for you is sometimes overwhelming and scary… It’s only natural that I get scared and want to run and hide as these feelings can get the best of me. If only you were mine and only mine it would be something like perfect in my mind. If that day never comes to know that I was loved by you and vice versa is enough for me! To have experienced you and know LOVE from you is enough to last my heart forever. You deserve for me to CATER 2 U, because I BELIEVE in us! I believe in the man you are. I have watched you transform from a boy to a man. Thru whatever life has thrown at you; you have remained a strong black man! If I had all the time and space in the world I still couldn't thank GOD enough from bringing you and keeping you here with me. For my blessing of True Love I give THANKS!!! Enjoy these songs because more than I can write it music describes any situation, and if no one else knows music you definitely know how music expresses any situation!

LOVE!!!

Ne Ne Leakes n Husband does {Vegas}

Ne Ne and husband were in Vegas last night where she hosted a party at Tao. Doesn't my boo look gorgeous? If your a hater then go ahead and HATE!

Michelle Obama {Love Advice}

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Mrs. Michelle Obama give's relationship advice! I LOVE IT!!! Anyone who knows me know's that all I want to do it sit down with the Obama's and get some good ol fashion Love advice. Well this is the next best thing then me stalking them LOL...
Tell me this doesn't touch your soul:

Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, Who are you as a person? That’s the advice I would give to women: Don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul. Look at how the guy treats his mother and what he says about women. How he acts with children he doesn’t know. And, more important, how does he treat you? When you’re dating a man, you should always feel good. You should never feel less than. You should never doubt yourself. You shouldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole. And if you’re in that relationship and you’re dating, then my advice is, don’t get married. Get out of it and find that person that brings you complete and utter joy with who you are at the moment.

Dawn n Que {One year later}

Am I the only one who thought they've been together for longer? It seems more like 3 years rather than 1. Either way you know I love them together so... Hater's fall back! To see more pictures make sure you click read more... Smooches

Trina n Kenyon {Flick it up}

Trina and her boo Kenyon did a photo shoot for Urban Ink. Ya'll already know I love Trina and this choice in BOO Kenyon is a match made in heaven. Get it girl! I ain't hating... to see more pics make sure you click

Why would we {settle?}

Sooo my friend Tenille and I were twittering back and forth about different things when she brought to my attention the video above. Her exact words were "Peep this video. The song lyrics are INSANE." We were in a deep vibe session, and just finished talking about the New Maxwell cd {which is Crazy}. Anywho I went to the video and once I saw the whole thing tears just started flowing. It is sooo beautiful. Lately my friend Shaunda and I have been in a deep mental session wondering why we are not married and why we don't even have a possible forever partner. After a deep brainstorming session we have some to the conclusion that most women settle, and that's just something we can not and will not do. I mean why would I? I do understand that I have to keep my options open, and stop looking because what God has for me NO ONE can take, but settling isn't the way for me to recognize his blessings. I was so in Love with a guy and had been in and out of relationships with him since I was 15 years old. Only to just really see that it was never meant to be. Women tend to try and cling to something that's not for them. We try to make things work that are destined to fall apart, because we think with our heart. A very unique quality that makes us who we are and makes us women. Yet it's a quality that gets us hurt a lot also. So what do we do and where do we go after a major heart break? What we should do is look at this video and look around at the true Love that surrounds us, the marriages that last 30 plus years, and be inspired! Knowing our blessing is coming, but we cannot settle under any means necessary. We have to be able to recognize our blessings when it is in front of us. Being appreciative of the loves that didn't make it, knowing that when we get what God has for us it will be greater than we ever expected. Knowing it's on his time not ours we must be patient! We will be that much more grateful for our blessings knowing that it was a long journey, but the love we have at that moment which turns into a lifetime was well worth the wait!
Smooches

D. Blanks Shoot {Dawn N Que}

Here are 3 of the photo's from Dawn and Que's shoot with D. Blanks, that I got off his Twitter page last night. You guy's already know how much I love Dawn and her boo que... ENJOY!!

T.I. to Tiny {I MISS U, COME VISIT ME}

OMGSH, This has to be the cutest thing I have heard in a while. People are really sleeping on Tiny and T.I. Apparently T.I. missed his boo, and couldn't take it anymore so he told her to come visit him a.s.a.p!!! I love it! So sweet. Whenever people think of hip hop couples the first thing said is Jay and Bey. Tiny and T.I. have a very strong relationship, and will most definately last. Don't sleep on them now... to read the rest make sure you click...

Rap artist T.I. entered a minimum security federal prison in Arkansas on Tuesday (5/26) to begin serving a 366 day sentence on federal gun charges.

We learned through interviews that T.I., who is commonly referred to as “Tip” by family and close friends, didn’t want anyone visiting him while he does his time in prison.

According to friend Bobby Ray as told to the Atlanta tabloid Creative Loafing:
“He doesn’t want anyone to see him in prison. I thought about it, I was definitely going to come by a lot. But he doesn’t even want his kids to see him there. He doesn’t want that image implanted in their heads, of him being in jail. I can kind of understand that.” But three weeks into his 52-week stretch, T.I. couldn’t bare not seeing his baby, Tameka “Tiny” Cottle, one more day.

Although T.I. talks on the phone with his children regularly (the smallest ones think he’s away at school), he reportedly told Tiny that he missed her terribly.

So yesterday, Tiny and a friend caught a flight to Arkansas where she visited with her man for the first time since his incarceration. The friend wasn’t allowed in to visit T.I. because her name wasn’t on the approved visitor’s list.

As you know, Tiny and Lil Wayne’s ex-wife, Antonia Carter, are set to star in their own reality show which will air later this month on BET. The show will focus mainly on family and Tiny’s plans to keep herself busy (and prosperous) while T.I. is incarcerated.

According to an inside source, Tiny’s salon — the one you’ve read so much about on the blogs, is close to opening officially, but there’s still much work to be done. Despite the fact that you will see the salon on her reality show, it isn’t open yet.

But the big news is that Tiny is putting the finishing touches on an as yet unnamed girl group whose members will include Tiny’s daughter Zonnique Pullins (affectionately known as “Meek”), Lil Wayne’s daughter Reginae Carter, 9, and two sisters — one of whom is the daughter of Silk member Jonathen “John-John” Rasboro.

I just spoke with a source close to Temeka, who is still in Arkansas visiting T.I. in prison. Tameka said to tell my readers that “anybody can write to Tip.” She said there is no pre-approved mailing list. So get your write on!

via Sandra Rose

Picture Perfect {Dreams do come true}

This young man was granted a visit to the White House and asked a simple enough question to our President. “Can he feel his hair, to see if it felt just like his?” <----- {Gives me chills!} Barack Obama being elected President of the United States is a monumental occurrence for so many around the world.

My love for what the Obama's are doing for this country when it comes to families is truly PRICELESS! They have restored hope in the fight that was missing in the Black Family! I absolutely LoVe it!

Kimora's {Baby Details}

After announcing the arrival of a son with longtime boyfriend Djimon Hounsou, the Baby Phat CEO on Wednesday followed up with the name of the infant: Kenzo Lee Hounsou. Simmons revealed that baby boy weighed in at 8 lbs. and 20 inches long.

Kenzo is Simmons’ third child. He joins Ming Lee, 9, and Aoki Lee, 6 ½, Kimora’s daughters with Russell Simmons. Kenzo is the first child Hounsou, 45.

Kimora {Healthy Baby Boy}

Kimora had a healthy baby boy on Sunday, and was actually twittering while in labor (hence the picture above is a twitpic.) Anywho Congrats Kimora!
It's time !! No turning back! At hospital in labor right now!! Love & Light, KLS
1:10 AM May 30th from web
It's a boy! Thanks to everyone out there for all your well wishes! More to come. Thank God. And God Bless! Kimora + Djimon Love & Light, KLS
10:07 PM May 30th from web
Having contractions now! Ooo- wee! It's like WHOA! Love & Light, KLS
2:57 AM May 30th from web
My hosp pic was NO make-up guys. Be for real. I'll send another soon! :)Love and Light, KLS
about 17 hours ago from web