Let Love Find A Way... {Titles}

The DILEMMA: He says "Be patient, I promise it's real." She says "give me a title or I'm OUT" Even if he's "Dream Guy, do I stay or let go?"

Whats in the title? I have been in relationships where we were soooo good, then when we gave it a title it went to hell. I've witnessed couples who were perfect as a "couple" but when they decided to take it to the next level and get married, "EVERYTHING CHANGED!!"

We tend to put labels on things for the outsiders looking in. Especially for other women we have to say we ARE something as a unit, just for the other girls not to have you and your life to gossip about. Its one thing to be happy but I don't think we always need a definition for everything, the best things in life aren't forced and they just go with the flow.

Me and My "him" were at our best when I wasn't worried about anything or anybody. At one point in time I started trying to define us and I was putting pressure on us to be more then what we were. When we were flowing we were happy, HAPPY HAPPY!! Then I started listening to those around me, digging for stuff that wasn't there putting unnecessary pressure on us almost ending us. Of course we found our way back, but I won't make that mistake again!!

Titles don't make or break anything! Who cares about the title more then likely the title puts you up to the worlds standards of where your "relationship" should be at. Go with your own flow, let the chips fall where they may. Knowing that you decided to do everything on your own in your world makes your situation even more better! Choosing to smile and separate yourself from the world is going to make the LOVE just that much better!

It's 2011 make your own rules! Take your own life into your own hands! I promise you title or no title as long as it's you and them against the world you will always be happy and REMAIN that way!!

xo :)

The LITTLE Things...

    I was on the phone with my boo, and of course she was complaining about a friend sending her some flowers! She HATES it with a passion to get flowers and stuff like that. Her theory is that the flowers will die so why waste your money? OK I get that, but me on the other hand I am whole different type of chick! The smaller the things, I feel like the effort was put in and thought and that's all that matters!!! For my boo to get me something because he wants Me to smile and think of him a little bit more means the WORLD to me! Makes me beyond happy!! I don't brag to no one else or anything I just walk past my "small thing" and smile!! :)

    I feel like theres so much love in thinking enough of me to get something you know I'd love just because! I used to be that girl, I used to think of my "honey" whenever I was out! Wanted to get him something just because I just KNEW he'd smile!! Somewhere along the line I guess I got comfortable and forgot about how much he would smile when I did the little things. We even had a conversation about it and he said I'm not that girl anymore, He'd come home and something new would be laid out or whatever. I guess I got complacent in just doing the norm. It made me sad to think I got comfortable and I am now working on it!!

   At the end of the day Wale said "New love is so beautiful, time just makes it ugly..." I think that about sums it up! We get good and complacent forgetting the small things leaving us to think that the love is no longer there...

*XO*

Our own worst enemy... {Sabotage}

The definition of Sabotage is:




Sa*bo*tage ~ Delibritly destory, Damage, or Destruct (something).


The number 8 song on Wale's Ambition cd is called Sabotage. 

"

Said her hearts in a cage, Cuz if you never love, you can never hurt! Marinate"

There's so many women who can probably relate to this, but as usual I am only speaking for myself. My "Him" and Bestfriend both said they think of me when they heard this song. All over twitter the girls all said they can relate to this song. It speaks volumes!


Most women think with their hearts, we tend to dream of the fantasy of having that forever love. When we get with someone we start thinking if he is the one. They put their all in them and when it doesn't work out, their hurt and a little peice of them closes up. if it keeps happening its only a matter of time before they build the wall that is almost impossible to break down. 


When the right guy finally comes along we are so distracted by all the past hurts and pains that we push him away. So what to decide live alone, or let another in with the possiblilty of being hurt. Speaking for myself its soooo freakin hard!!


My "Him" has evolved so much there was a time when I wouldn't even begin to tell him when i was hurting or needed someone to talk to because he would tell me "its not that bad" or something of that nature that made me say forget it!! No more talking to him!! Now 2 years later he has opened up and so have I. The problem is that I ALWAYS tell him I am scared of him going back to the old him and he gets pissed, yet he always reassures me he's in this. I know eventually if i keep bringing up the old him its going to really piss him off and he is really going to revert. We HAVE to PUSH PASS THE PAIN and focus on HAPPINESS!!!


I guess the moral of the story is we can not let the past dictate our future, or we jeprodize never having a future!!


xo :)

Quote of the DAY...

Sometimes Love just isn't ENOUGH... 

Love yourself first ALWAYS,

ForeverTrue1981       

Marsha Ambrosius ~ Late Night Early Morning

              

Marsha Ambrosius ~ Late Night Early Morning... Loving that all her video's have a message and this one is a definite now & days! Once the video premiered Ms. Ambrosius tweeted:

Can I just tell you that watching this video made me realize just how much I LOVE this CD!! Not to mention Late Night Early Morning was already my call back tone! Gone girl! Definitely a stan for Ms. Ambrosius! Follow Marsha Ambrosius: HERE

Go Nicki it's yo birthday!! {well not really; but u r the BOMB!!!!}

My girl Nicki on Elle Magazine check out the pictures!! =)

Per Elle:

Powerfully sexy, rapier sharp, and dressed to attract every eye (and camera lens) on the planet, Nicki Minaj is redefining what it means to be a rapper, one fashion spectacle at a time.

Raheem DeVaughn - B.O.B.

 

Happy Saturday!!! Although I am a prude when it comes to sex I love Raheem so why wouldn't i share ANY and EVERYTHING he comes out with??? I also feel like he is 20 years late with this video but oh well better late than never! I love it and I love you!! Go Raheem!!!

Always and forever,

**Smooches**

Gabrielle Union's Birthday Toast to D. Wade

If this isn't the cutest thing!!! Gabrielle is definitely all smiles!! =)~
Gabrielle Union gave the cutest toast at her boo D. Wade's 29th birthday party! Omgee she kept it so real and for him to be able to tell her "when her tracks are showing" says a lot! They're most definitely comfortable around each other and they LOVE each other! I love CHOCOALATE love!!! =)~


**Smooches**

P.S. Is that a baby bump??? OMGEE she would be sooooo cute peppermint!! =)





She said:

It’s true, he tells me when my tracks aren’t covered. It’s true, he says I think you might want to put some spanx on. It’s true. But more than anything, he’s so considerate, he’s amazing and he’s f**king hot without his clothes on. So tonight I just want to say, baby you’re not yet 30, which damn it I can’t wait until you are because it makes me sound a little bit less of a pervert. You’re
not just an amazing basketball player and team mate. He’s a great man and a great father and I love him because he throws down great dunks and he’s always on ESPN. But love him more because he’s an amazing father and an amazing friend and he’s an amazing man.

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Tha Game!!! {How it all went down}

** Sheesh I don't even know where to START!!!! OMGEE SMH!!! I Don't Know man I mean this season is going to be the ish but... Why can't Melanie and Derwin just be happy without all the extras!! What us gone do if they break up??? **


My Breakdown:

Melanie DAVIS: 2 years later she is married to Derwin and seems so HAPPY!!!! But 2 freaking years later She does a DNA test on Derwin Jr. At first the test says Derwin isn't the dad... then come to find out he really is but Melanie already told him he ISN'T!!! SMH Why wait 2 years later Melanie??? Sheesh

Jason Pitts: DIVORCED Kelly... No more Stacey Dash... Sabers haven't made him an offer yet to come rather he's holding out for a better offer. {I'm thinking he just needs to throw in the towel!!}

Derwin Davis: Married to Melanie; has a beautiful son; great relationship with his babies mother Janae {so does his wife Melanie}and BACK ON TOP of his professional Football career {The FACE of NIKE!!!}... What could go wrong??? Well 2 years later his wife Melanie does a DNA test and breaks it to him that his son isn't his!!!! {Or is he atleast at this moment he thinks he isn't!!!}

DAMN DAMN DAMN!!!!

Kelly Pitts: Divorced Jason and so far still beefing with Tasha {2 years later} and so far she is of no substance! I think she is trying to find herself doing reality shows and spending all Jason's money! So far from the Kelly we all knew... SMH

Tasha Mack: First off Ms. pow pow pow is still beefing with Kelly 2 years later and she is SCARED of Kelly!! She's smoking black and milds and all like she all the way hood now but she SCARED of KELLY?? What the What?? Wait there's more she is dating/messing with TERRANCE J from 106 and park!!! OMGEE where is RICK FOX???? Sidenote: She did rebuild Derwin's career!!! 

Malik "El Debarge" Wright: OMGEE he is doing a downward spiral!!! I don't even think I want to see how this disaster is going to END!! He's sleeping with the owners wife! Drinking way more, making dumb moves, and now he slept with Ti Ti's girl! Ti Ti was super loyal to him now this is about to get sticky watch... Ti Ti walked off super pissed!! I don't know what can happen when you mess over a good friend that KNOWS EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU!! Malik is doing bad! I don't know whats worse Derwin and Melanie or Malik!! Ummmmm Malik by far it seems like he is going to be on drugs soon the way he is going it only makes sense! He is rushing along sooooo BLINDLY!!!

I still love the Game and all it's drama! I wish Melanie and Derwin the best... maybe some couseling for them and Malik!... We are just going to have to see how this season unfolds...SMH

**Smooches**

The Game: Seasons One-Three The Game: Seasons One-Three The Game: The Second Season The Game: The First Season The Game: The Third Season 

OMGEE it's OBAMA!!!!

This leaves me with a BIG SMILE!!! lol I wonder how I'll be when I meet him! **Smooches**

Nicki Minaj on KING

Nicki Minaj graced the cover of King Magazine and she tells men EXACTLy what to do to bring the freak out of her!! I Love her!! Sheesh!!

According to NYDailey:

"I look for someone who is calm, someone who is strong enough to not have to win every argument, someone who allows a woman to be her crazy self and someone with a conscience not to feel like less of a man,” she told the mag. “You know, someone who is able to honor his woman but also bring out the freak in his woman.” When pressed exactly what that meant, she said slyly "Just being super aggressive when the time is right." The star dished that in addition to her soaring rap career, she's looking to get into acting. Known for slightly out-there style at times, it's no surprise that she'd like her first movie to be one with some cool costumes and makeup. "I'd like to play someone in a Tim Burton movie,” she said. "Where I get dressed up and painted kind of crazy." After that, she said, she'd love to play a character like Angelina Jolie's in "Salt". "And then I'd like to play a regular girl who, you know, is facing the world," she said. "Something really sentimental and organic, that girls all around the world can identify with." For Minaj, the interview comes shortly after a widespread rumor dropped that the star had become the latest in the line of celebrities with a sex tape out. Mediatakeout.com reported the tape, which was reportedly made before Minaj's rise to fame, is being hawked for $100K. The pop star herself makes more than enough to cover the cost of that though. Her latest work has sold more than half a million albums since its Nov. 22 drop.

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Pink Friday

Michael Vick getting nothing but LOVE!!!

This has to be the cutest thing I've seen in a while. After the Eagles won against the cowboys on Sunday night. Cowboys running back Tashard Choice asked Michael Vick for an autograph for his newphew who LOVES Mike!! AWWWWEEEEE that is just to cute and I got much love for someone who can look past everything and do this especially after loosing!! I love it!! =)

According to ESPN:

Dallas Cowboys running back Tashard Choice accomplished one goal Sunday night: He got Michael Vick’s autograph. Choice approached Vick after the Eagles’ 30-27 win at Cowboys Stadium and asked him to sign a glove. Philadelphia’s MVP candidate granted the request.

“That’s probably the first time that’s ever happened to me,” Vick said of an opposing player’s request after a game. “But [Choice] is a great guy. It doesn’t surprise me.” Choice, who rushed for 16 yards on seven carries and had a 17-yard reception in the loss, said he has known Vick for years. They became acquainted when Choice attended Georgia Tech and Vick played for the Atlanta Falcons.

The autograph, according to Choice, was for a young family member who is a big fan of Vick. “My little nephew says he’s his brother,” Choice said. “My little nephew is 2 years old, so I had to get one for him. I just admire somebody who comes from those circumstances and comes back and proves everybody wrong. I’ve got nothing but respect for him.”

Nicki Minaj turns 26!!!

My Bad Bish Nicki turned 26 on the 10th!!! I freaking love her!!!! =)2 Birthday Cakes Weezy everyone was there but where was DRAKE??????

Raheem Devaughn She's single

OMGEE this video gets all the way live!!! I love Raheem and he never cease to amaze me!!! Thanks for this one lol I'm single!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
**Smooches**