Shaw University pt 2

 

This is so freakin sad!!! =( I love my school and I am going to help in every way I can!!! Hope you do too...
 To read more about it make sure to click on the links below:
CNN
The Dailey Tarheel
Flickr
Forum

Shaw University Disaster Relief...

On April 16th Disaster struck Shaw University!! This one I am taking very personal as this was the college I attended! It broke my heart to see the dorm where I layed my head all torn up. The "Caf" where I ate many a meals doesn't even look the same... We have got to pitch in and get our school back up and running! Shaw has been a home away from home for so many generations and generations. Both my mother and father attended Shaw thats where they met... 18 years later I followed their footsteps and hopefully one of my children will keep the dream alive. I was on twitter yesterday and got one of the Deepest tweets I've seen in a while from Wale. He said:

The main reason I LOVE Wale now he is sooooo real... But thats neither here nor there I just need for you to take a moment out of your day and help a school that most definately deserves it. Remember every penny counts!!
To donate:
Shaw Universuty Disaster Relief Fund
Mechanics and Farmers Bank
13 E. Hargett Street
Raleigh,NC 27601

To see more pictures of the disaster on campus click {HERE}

What the What?? Volume 1: My WTF Moments of the Week

Sooooo their just gone give Suri Cruz penis shaped gummi bears?? Thats GREAT momming right there!! SMH

Annnndddddd Plies you have a brand new IRON Charm for your necklace? Ok I get it your trying to be original but ummmm...

I mean I've gone to Walmart a little messy but this is str8 up nasty SMH..

PIMP's shop at Walmart?? This OLD PIMP has me confused where's his WHORES???

ICES BROWN SPOLIGHT: Put it on the set

It's my GIRL!!! This time she got the props on deck! I freaking love her! She's got more confidence then a little bit! I wish I was this confident. But Enjoy and Happy Friday!!

Follow ICES on twitter: IcesBrown and follow me: Forevertrue1981

as always
**Smooches**

Promise to remain TRUE: Sleeping with the ENEMY 3/21/2011

Let me get right on it. I have a 5 year old son. This is my first child and I am so happy because this is what I wanted since I was 10 years old to be a wife and, mother. I’ve got my ring and my baby, my life sounds like its going good right; right? The only problem is I don’t know who my son’s father is. Now I have kept that secret and planned on taking it to my grave until my son has come up with medical complications. They are wanting to test my blood and my husbands incase he needs blood we’d be the first to give him what he needs if we match. I am so scared and I don’t know what to do. I WILL DO ANYTHING FOR MY SON. He is my world. I’ve already had my blood taken and I’m not a match so bring on the drama. The “other” guy has always known that he maybe the father and he sends me money and things for my son. I know I shouldn’t be taking this behind my husbands back because he’s a great man. But the way I see it my son is benefitting from having 2 dads because he can get any and everything he wants. He won’t have to grow up wanting or needing for anything. This isn’t even the half because the other guy is my husband’s worst enemy! I know what your thinking but my husband and I were at a very bad place when I slept with his enemy. And since I am putting it all out there I might as well say that I still sleep with his enemy from time to time. I know I am only digging a deeper grave but I love them both. They are excellent to my son. My fear is that it’s about to come out because in my heart I know my son’s father is really not my husbands. I’m deathly afraid of how this is going to turn out. What should I do?
Sincerly,
Lost and Confused
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My Dearest Lost and Confused,
          GIRL YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID SINCERLY SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY, BECAUSE THAT IS INDEED WHAT YOUR DOING!! My grandma always says what’s done in the dark will ALWAYS come to the LIGHT??? Here’s the light, your son is SICK! Now you have to have blood work done and you don’t match. You are absolutely right here comes the drama!! You and I both know that your husband isn’t the father. I think that he would have been pissed and disgusted knowing that he’s been raising someone else’s child for 5 years, but for it to be his ENEMY!! Girl if he is anything like the guys I know you better run for your life! I try my hardest not to judge people so you don’t have to worry about me judging you. But I do speak my mind and I will give you the business!! There are so many women in the world that want what you have a loving husband and a beautiful child, and you have taken that and ruined it. Lets break this thing down now:

**Your sleeping with another man??? What part of the game is that? I understand you were going through a rough patch, but why do women insist on sleeping with someone because your going through it with your spouse. I know we as woman don’t want to be judged any differently then men but the FACT is we ARE!! We can’t do what they do and you really shouldn’t want to. You should have taken that time to evaluate yourself and decide if you want to continue to be in that relationship and what should you two work on to make it better instead of spreading those legs.

** The other guy is his ENEMY??? Are you kidding me is this some kind of joke? Ok so you slept with someone else… There are millions of guys and you chose the guy he HATES??? I know you know they were enemies you’re his wife so instead of sleeping with the enemy you should have been riding with your husband if they got beef then you got beef with him too. How do you let him swindle you into sleeping with him? You WANTED to and still is. Which makes me think you can’t turn a whore into a housewife!!

** The enemy knows he’s the baby daddy and he’s laughing at your husband and you. You accept gifts from him because YOU know he IS the dad. You also accept them because your not INDEPENDENT or logical. Be ambitious help your husband get everything your child needs instead of playing with the enemy. Like Jacki-o Said “It’s not what you do; it’s how you do the sh*t!’’

**Girl gone head and let that cat out the bag work on getting your baby better because he’s the innocent person in this situation. He didn’t ask to be here so the mess you’ve caused yourself can be put on hold until your son is all better. But please believe any real man is going to SNAP and that time will come!! SMH what a mess you’ve created. Get some strength and class about you babygirl. Do cheat yourself. Strive for better… It’s only right!! As always "I PROMISE TO REMAIN TRUE!!’’


**Take a listen to the Jacki-o song sleeping with the enemy this is YOU all DAY!!!***

Loving my sisters ALWAYS,
ForeverTrue

Going HAM...???

 

OMGEE did she not go H.A.M??? I usually don't condone my sisters when acting like they have no home training. Please don't think I am condoning this but i had to post it!!! This is just a messy mess!! Whats makes it so much more funny is that WorldStar captioned it to say: "When Precious Attacks?" #DEAD SMH... Here's some Monday f*ckery for you to enjoy!!

**Smooches**

Ices... doing the DERN THANG!!! LOL

My girl is back with a vengence! She got her make-up on, nails done, she just went in. Happy Monday from ForeverTrue & Ices Brown!!! LMBO

**Smooches**

Wait What???

 

Sooooooo I'm at a lost for words. Even thow they arent speaking english, you most definitely get the jist of it. All I can say is wow?!?! She better had WON or they some straight up cheaters!!!! SMH Enjoy this Sundays what the What??

**Smooches**

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ICES is BACK!!!!!!!!!!!! My WTF Moment of the DAY/WEEK!

I am going to post ICES as much as I can!! She has just found herself a new fan as I KNOW i am her BIGGEST FAN!!! So today here is my WTF moment of the day... My new boo ICES Brown... You can see all her video's on her Youtube page ICES391 <--- Just click her name! But no worries I am going to post her once a week!!! Yayy!! Go Ices!!!


But it get's better... I ran across a guy by the name of Nate who evaluated Ice's video... I think I DIED twice LMBO!!! Check the video below. He doesn't have just one Employee Evaluation he has a million and I love them all so just check out his Youtube page: NatesVlogs

WTF MOMENT OF THE DAY PART 2... Faking an ADDICTION!!

Who in the world FAKES AN ADDICTION!!! I knew this lady was screwy from watching her on the Real Housewives of D.C. but for some reason I didn't think she would go this far for attention but alas I WAS WRONG!! This deserves to be my WTF moment of the Day part 2!!!!


Per Bossip and Radar Online:
Attention Whore extraordinaire Michaele Salahi — one half of the White House party crashing couple — has been kicked off “Celebrity Rehab” for missing the one thing you need to get in. An addiction. A production source tells RadarOnline.com that The former Real Housewives of D.C. star was released from the show on Tuesday because she failed to show any signs of addiction.

“Michaele Salahi was discharged by Dr. Drew Pinsky approximately one hour ago. Michaele has a ton of issues but she clearly has no addiction issues, whatsoever,” says the source.

 “Michaele was a distraction to other cast members, and was complaining that Dr. Drew wasn’t properly treating her MS.”

“Dr. Drew did a thorough medical examination of her, including a full neurological check-up, and she is fine. Michaele is all drama, that is her main issue.”

But according to her husband Tareq, Michaele only agreed to do Celebrity Rehab to get help from Dr. Drew for her Multiple Sclerosis.

“She was really leaning on Dr. Drew who is a respected doctor to get her through some of the issues after the White House, when she went to Congress, when she went into relapse with her Multiple Sclerosis.” Tareq adds that it was the show that wanted her to pretend to be something she wasn’t.

Tareq says he now has plans of exposing the makings of reality shows on national television.

“My wife takes her health situation very seriously, she has a real diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis. You know, we can show you a bunch of emails about what they wanted her to pretend to be, therefore, but that’s going to come out later on with one of the major networks.”

 “See the first episode of busting some of these reality shows open on ABC News 20/20. There will be a special on Friday and maybe more to come after that.”

While Michaele was trying to fake her way through “Celeb Rehab” fellow cast member Michael Lohan allowed her husband Tareq to live in his West Hollywood apartment. But on Monday night, Lohan became furious at Tareq, claiming he owed him rent for the apartment.

According to a source close to the situation, Tareq has promised to pay Michael $2,500 to stay in the apartment for three weeks. When the money wasn’t paid promptly, Michael left the Pasadena Recovery Center, with cameras in tow, and confronted Tareq at the apartment.

RadarOnline.com was on the scene when Michael returned to the apartment with a camera crew from Celebrity Rehab and the Pasadena Recovery Center to evict Tareq, and according to Lohan, he was successful.

VH1 released the following statement:

The treatment program that Celebrity Rehab documents is intended for individuals with serious substance abuse and addiction issues. Prior to the taping of the current season, producers were advised that Michaele Salahi met the criteria to be treated in this setting. However, professional assessments spanning from that time to the present, found that she did not meet such criteria. As a result, she is no longer participating in the program.”

WTF of the day!! Bear vs Man?!?!

 

This is my WTF moment of the day!! Why in the world are you even in there?? SMH!! You all in the bear personal area and he just snapped!!!! WTF????

****I heard the man died don't know how true it is...RIP... Learn from his mistake leave these animals ALONE!!!****

Loyalty or Foolishness??

This young sister is crying because she can't go home! The reason is because she won't snitch! This young lady has so much potential and has the opportunity to be a successful woman instead she is choosing not to snitch! I'm not sure how she got herself in this situation, nor am I sure if she is just doing this out of loyalty or she's just scared?? But she's here now and I don't know how she is going to get herself out of this. Just seeing the picture breaks my heart because she looks so lost and confused!! A perfect example of defining yourself and not letting a man define you!! No matter if she is only 17. This is something we as older black women must plant into our daughters and little girls head! Be better than your situation where you came from DOES NOT DEFINE WHERE YOUR GOING!!!!

Per Bossip :

Afrika Owes was sobbing but she was still not snitching. Had the 17-year-old been snitching, had the prosecutor been able to say that this young woman was remorseful and fully cooperating with the investigation, then Friday’s bail hearing almost certainly would have ended differently. The judge would very likely have approved the esteemed Rev. Calvin Butts’ offer to post $50,000 of his church’s funds as her bail. And Owes would then have been able to go home rather than back to Rikers Island pending a bail hearing that is an interminable two weeks away.

Maybe she is not snitching out of fear; several members of the 137th St. Crew are still at large. Maybe she is keeping silent out of some misguided street ethic against snitching that is reinforced by rap songs and videos. Most likely she is not cooperating out of misplaced loyalty to her boyfriend, Jaquan Layne, aka “Jay Cash” or simply “Jay.” He is the lead name in the indictment and is said to be head of the crew. Owes could not snitch without snitching on Jay, and she seems to feel a too-blind allegiance to him. Such devotion is not rare among teenage girls who have yet to learn the stupendously selfish ways of males.

The crimes with which Owes is charged were essentially errands for Layne. She was doing the bidding of the crew’s leader the way a girl in other circumstances might for the captain of the high school football team. She carried his 9-mm. for him when she just was 16, complaining at one recorded moment that it is “too heavy,” but in the way of a teen not worrying that she was putting her immediate freedom and ultimate future in jeopardy. Also in the way of a teen, she failed to consider that Layne would never put her in that position if he had any real regard for her. Layne even presses her to change her college goals to fit his plan to move his drug operation to Pennsylvania, where the competition is not so fierce. Owes initially objects, telling him she hopes to attend either Columbia or NYU. She then gives in, saying she supposes she could always apply to Penn. After all, if she went to college in New York, how could she carry his gun and deliver messages for him in Pennsylvania?

Even now, when it appears that she may be matriculating in prison, Owes remains dismayingly loyal. On its part, the District Attorney’s Office cannot cut Owes a break just because she is female or because she is uncommonly bright or because she briefly attended a prestigious prep school. A stray bullet from a gun can kill a youngster just as dead, whoever carries it around. If Owes were a male with lower test scores charged with carrying a gun and furthering a drug operation, you can be sure that Rep. Charlie Rangel would not have been in court to show his support. Rangel could not get her sprung. Nor could Butts. But Layne could. He could use the same persuasive charms that got her into jail to get her out. He need only convince her to cooperate. On his part, Layne would be taking a new direction by doing something decent. He does not seem to be much of a drug kingpin. Even his moniker “Jay Cash” smacks of a wanna-be more than a true gangsta. My guess is he wanted to go to Pennsylvania because he could not make it in New York, even in crime. Owes could still make it here in myriad legitimate ways, and Layne ought to give her a chance. Snitching isn’t really snitching if the person you are snitching on tells you to do it.

WTF Moment of the day...Kim Kardashian

I have so many problems with this!! First it was the dumb braids when she announced she would be doing hip hop music. Now for her new video for her ridicoulsly HORRIBLE song she dresses like this?? I love music everything about music. Music is soothing and can accomidate any situation!! Is this her impersination of real hip hop?? Do all artist dress like this?? Is this what she see's when she turns on MTV or BET??? I don't even have an issue with Kim or her sisters but this music thing is really getting under my SKIN!!!! Don't disrespect the game momma... Do you by all means but be true to YOU!! I have no idea what this is supposed to represent!!! SMFH...

If you want to hear the song in question then by all means click HERE

Lil Duval ~ Love Faces

 

This is such a fool!!! Haaaa Happy Monday!!

**Smooches**

Things that make you go hmmmmm??? Volume 3

Chris Brown trying the Sisqo?? SMFH...

Gucci on your Face?? So your never going to get a job! Hope you start your own business!!!!...

A sleeve of Louie?? SMFH...

This Bald Headed Beast was found in a 16 year old boy's closet BUTT BOONKEY NAKED...

Check the story <HERE>

Promise to Remain True... 2/28/2011 Should I leave my cheating HUSBAND???

He is cheating and he doesn’t know I know. What do I do?

Forever True,
     I need your help. My man is one of the best providers ever. He takes great care of my kids as well as me. We don’t want for anything. I haven’t worked on anyone’s job since we have been together. That’s how good of a man he is to me. I’ve never had a relationship where I am taken care of so good. I don’t want for ANYTHING. Never had anything disconnected, always gets us the best of everything. Fast forward to when I found out he was cheating. I was cleaning up and heard a buzzing noise coming from a shelf in the closet! Low and behold an un-accounted for cell phone. On the caller id it said Wet Wet. I didn’t answer but 2 seconds after “Wet Wet” hung up she texted the phone and said “Bae where are you? What time you coming to get some of this good good?” I dropped the phone and it seemed like my whole world crumbled when I read that. My stomach dropped and I didn’t know what to do. Am I loosing my family? I give this man everything he could ever need out of a relationship. I know he not gone tell me the p*ssy aint good. He never has to ask I am always at his beckon call whether its sex, food, or companionship. I am made from a different type of cloth. I was always taught that if you give a man what he needs he will never stray! So what am I doing wrong then? When does he have time to cheat? He is always home!!! So I’ve had time to think on this and I really want to know should I confront him or leave it alone. My sister says as long as I am the main, but how can I be happy with being “The Main” I want to be the only. What about all the good things that he has brought to my kids and me. We do laugh and chill way more then we ever argue. I asked him would he mess with anyone else and he said I am the only woman for him. But I know that’s a lie but I’m just kind of scared what life would be like without him. What do you think I should do?
Signed,
He thinks he is so damn slick!

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As always I promise to remain True so here we go...


Girl I have seen this sitation way to many times. I was once a girl like you.I learned quickly that no amount of MONEY is worth my SELF-RESPECT!!!! I cried and cried trying to see how to fix my home back to the place it was before disaster came and took over my home! I am not telling you to leave but I HAD TO leave otherwise I would have lost my sanity! You have to do whats best for you! I do suggest you confront him with the information you have and go from there! No more times of being WEAK!! Be STRONG and HANDLE your BUSINESS!!! Don't let him get away with that ISH... You signed your letter he thinks he's so damn slick, but in a way boo boo he is because you let him get away with everything he is doing! Your choosing to be silent when you have a voice!! USE IT!!! Don't do what he is doing and harvest a secret! It's so unhealthy for your health! I suggest counceling and prayer whatever you do make sure your happy ALWAYS!! I can't help but think that your harvesting this secret and scared to confront him because he takes care of everything in your home! You hold no responsibilty and your scared to loose all of that by confronting him with what you know or saw. Become more independent. Don't depend on a man for anything depend on yourself and make sure you can do all that you can with or without a man! Who knows if he will just up and leave and where will that leave you as woman? As a provider for your kids?? Maybe thats what he is lacking and he has started to turn to another more independent woman! Yes Sex is good and I too was taught to never leave my man wanting for nothing. But I also know that I am a woman of standards and yes I have done some crazy stuff in my life and still is... but at the end of the day I know beyond a shadow of a doubt I can do BAD ALL BY MYSELF!!!! Smile boo come up with a game plan. See past your tears and think of a way to handle your situation that will benefit all parties involved!!


**Loving my sisters always**
ForeverTrue

Seaborn and Dot... I'M DONE FLATLINE________________________

 

Hold up wait a G*t Damn MINUTE... Haaaaaaaa

God knows I LOVE Seaborn and all his expressions but OMGEE!!! Money in her hair?? Like how do you justify this? Sooooo Dot thinks this is T?? I would have to have ask Seaborn was I being punked?? I'm at a total lost for words!! Happy Sunday!

**Smooches**

Jesus take the wheel part 2

 

Atleast she's fully clothed this time...!!! She is so confident!! I'm not gone say anything just enjoy!!!!

**Smooches**

Jesus take the wheel...

 

Jesus take the wheel...

Promise to remain true... 2/21/2011 IS MY MAN GAY???

Hello,       
      I have been dating this guy for 1 year as of TODAY. We hit it off from the start. He makes me laugh all the time, he is such a great father to his child and I can honestly say that I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. I want to have his children. We always talk about life and our plans for the future. My whole family loves him to death. It seems something like perfect. We still talk on the phone like kids he’s my heart and I love him with my everything. Well you’re probably thinking what’s the issue right?
      Well we always took pride in the fact that we tell each other everything. His cell phone is my cell phone and vice versa. I thought there was nothing hid all cards were on the table. My gay cousin came into town this past weekend. I went to introduce my boyfriend to my cousin and there was this unspoken tension. I chopped it up as my boyfriend not really liking “gay” people to much. He always had something slick to say about a gay person and wondering “How they can be gay when there’s so much p*ssy in the world?” Later on my sister called and said she needs to talk to me asap. She said my cousin said that my boyfriend is gay and he has proof. I instantly hung up with her and called my cousin. He told me my boyfriend slept with his best friend about 6 months ago and he called his friend on 3 way. At first I was like yeah right until he described a birth mark on my boyfriends butt and other details only someone who has been intimate with my boyfriend would know. I instantly hung up on my cousin and called my boyfriend to come home ASAP! I confronted him and he didn’t even hesitate he told me it was true. He said it only happened once in his life and that he IS NOT GAY! He also said that it wasn't a big deal. Yet he knows nothing about this guy INCLUDING his last name whch makes me think he does this more than he is saying. He said everyone experiments once in their lifetime and that was his chance. He just wanted to see what all the fuss was about. He said he loves me and only me and wants me to be his wife. At first I was scared but now I don’t know what to think. Could that have only been an experiment and how do I know he won’t do it again? My hearts so torn I love him to death but I CAN’T be with a gay guy? So I guess I’m asking if you think it was an experiment or if he is really gay?

Signed,
Is my man GAY? 
scared and confused




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My dearest Is my man gay,

   Honey you already know the answer to this question and you really don't need me to answer, but since your looking for help I PROMISE TO REMAIN TRUE!!! Honey this is how women get screwed. The DOWN LOW life is very real. If he is continuing to bash gay men even after his encounter that just shows you he is still very interested. I personally feel there are a million men in the world and although you love him there is so much wrong with this situation.
1) He kept a secret from your secret free relationship.
2) If your cousin didn't come would you have ever known?
3) Everyone DOESN'T experiment with their sexuality!!!!
4) He brushed it off as if it wasn't a big deal
5) Did he use a condom?
6) He had to talk to this guy more than just one time before they slept together!!!

Do you know how many men tell their wives/girlfriends their not gay they just "like having sex with men?" Most of those woman loose in the end because they end up contracting something? If he held this from you how can you know he isn't hiding anything else? I would sever ties AIDS is real boo and there's so much more to life than what you are going through right now. It gets better. Live for yourself first and everything else will fall into place. Don't take any mess from NOONE NO MATTER WHAT! This is your life and you only have one life to live so make it worth it!! Matters of the heart are tricky but no love is worth your life or lies! I am not saying that every gay person has AIDS or anything like that but he hid this experience from you so you can only imagine what else!! Then he made it as if it was just NO BIG DEAL...!!!  Learn from this and grow!! Gain some strength and be the woman you want to be in life!! =)

Loving my sisters always,
**Smooches boo boo**