Promise to remain TRUE: Sleeping with the ENEMY 3/21/2011

Let me get right on it. I have a 5 year old son. This is my first child and I am so happy because this is what I wanted since I was 10 years old to be a wife and, mother. I’ve got my ring and my baby, my life sounds like its going good right; right? The only problem is I don’t know who my son’s father is. Now I have kept that secret and planned on taking it to my grave until my son has come up with medical complications. They are wanting to test my blood and my husbands incase he needs blood we’d be the first to give him what he needs if we match. I am so scared and I don’t know what to do. I WILL DO ANYTHING FOR MY SON. He is my world. I’ve already had my blood taken and I’m not a match so bring on the drama. The “other” guy has always known that he maybe the father and he sends me money and things for my son. I know I shouldn’t be taking this behind my husbands back because he’s a great man. But the way I see it my son is benefitting from having 2 dads because he can get any and everything he wants. He won’t have to grow up wanting or needing for anything. This isn’t even the half because the other guy is my husband’s worst enemy! I know what your thinking but my husband and I were at a very bad place when I slept with his enemy. And since I am putting it all out there I might as well say that I still sleep with his enemy from time to time. I know I am only digging a deeper grave but I love them both. They are excellent to my son. My fear is that it’s about to come out because in my heart I know my son’s father is really not my husbands. I’m deathly afraid of how this is going to turn out. What should I do?
Sincerly,
Lost and Confused
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My Dearest Lost and Confused,
          GIRL YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID SINCERLY SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY, BECAUSE THAT IS INDEED WHAT YOUR DOING!! My grandma always says what’s done in the dark will ALWAYS come to the LIGHT??? Here’s the light, your son is SICK! Now you have to have blood work done and you don’t match. You are absolutely right here comes the drama!! You and I both know that your husband isn’t the father. I think that he would have been pissed and disgusted knowing that he’s been raising someone else’s child for 5 years, but for it to be his ENEMY!! Girl if he is anything like the guys I know you better run for your life! I try my hardest not to judge people so you don’t have to worry about me judging you. But I do speak my mind and I will give you the business!! There are so many women in the world that want what you have a loving husband and a beautiful child, and you have taken that and ruined it. Lets break this thing down now:

**Your sleeping with another man??? What part of the game is that? I understand you were going through a rough patch, but why do women insist on sleeping with someone because your going through it with your spouse. I know we as woman don’t want to be judged any differently then men but the FACT is we ARE!! We can’t do what they do and you really shouldn’t want to. You should have taken that time to evaluate yourself and decide if you want to continue to be in that relationship and what should you two work on to make it better instead of spreading those legs.

** The other guy is his ENEMY??? Are you kidding me is this some kind of joke? Ok so you slept with someone else… There are millions of guys and you chose the guy he HATES??? I know you know they were enemies you’re his wife so instead of sleeping with the enemy you should have been riding with your husband if they got beef then you got beef with him too. How do you let him swindle you into sleeping with him? You WANTED to and still is. Which makes me think you can’t turn a whore into a housewife!!

** The enemy knows he’s the baby daddy and he’s laughing at your husband and you. You accept gifts from him because YOU know he IS the dad. You also accept them because your not INDEPENDENT or logical. Be ambitious help your husband get everything your child needs instead of playing with the enemy. Like Jacki-o Said “It’s not what you do; it’s how you do the sh*t!’’

**Girl gone head and let that cat out the bag work on getting your baby better because he’s the innocent person in this situation. He didn’t ask to be here so the mess you’ve caused yourself can be put on hold until your son is all better. But please believe any real man is going to SNAP and that time will come!! SMH what a mess you’ve created. Get some strength and class about you babygirl. Do cheat yourself. Strive for better… It’s only right!! As always "I PROMISE TO REMAIN TRUE!!’’


**Take a listen to the Jacki-o song sleeping with the enemy this is YOU all DAY!!!***

Loving my sisters ALWAYS,
ForeverTrue

The Game ~ Malik "El Debarge" Wright

Anyone who really knows me, should know I have been watching The Game since it was on the CW!! So I truly feel like I know them personally. Now that they are back the writers aren't PLAYING!!! With that being said they are starting early with all the drama, and we are only 3 episodes in so OMGEE!!!! WHATS NEXT??? In an earlier post I SAID:

 Malik was on a downward spiral, and although they are doing it much earlier then I thought SHEESH... I was sooooo right on point! Malik poppin precription meds drinking Liquor straight out the bottle, burning bridges (especially with TT), and now he got ARRESTED!!!!! SMH I TOLD you guys!!! To see the scenes from next week see below!!
Thanks BET I'm so loving you guys right now!!! =)
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It's 2 sides to every story... {The Harvey's}

I was really debating on if I was going to post this because there's 2 sides to every story and then there's the truth... We haven't really heard Steve's part and I dont know if we will but, his ex-wife Mary Harvey is telling her's... SMH I feel this going to get worse before it gets better... to watch the videos and read the "infamous" mistress letter please see below:

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Tha Game!!! {How it all went down}

** Sheesh I don't even know where to START!!!! OMGEE SMH!!! I Don't Know man I mean this season is going to be the ish but... Why can't Melanie and Derwin just be happy without all the extras!! What us gone do if they break up??? **


My Breakdown:

Melanie DAVIS: 2 years later she is married to Derwin and seems so HAPPY!!!! But 2 freaking years later She does a DNA test on Derwin Jr. At first the test says Derwin isn't the dad... then come to find out he really is but Melanie already told him he ISN'T!!! SMH Why wait 2 years later Melanie??? Sheesh

Jason Pitts: DIVORCED Kelly... No more Stacey Dash... Sabers haven't made him an offer yet to come rather he's holding out for a better offer. {I'm thinking he just needs to throw in the towel!!}

Derwin Davis: Married to Melanie; has a beautiful son; great relationship with his babies mother Janae {so does his wife Melanie}and BACK ON TOP of his professional Football career {The FACE of NIKE!!!}... What could go wrong??? Well 2 years later his wife Melanie does a DNA test and breaks it to him that his son isn't his!!!! {Or is he atleast at this moment he thinks he isn't!!!}

DAMN DAMN DAMN!!!!

Kelly Pitts: Divorced Jason and so far still beefing with Tasha {2 years later} and so far she is of no substance! I think she is trying to find herself doing reality shows and spending all Jason's money! So far from the Kelly we all knew... SMH

Tasha Mack: First off Ms. pow pow pow is still beefing with Kelly 2 years later and she is SCARED of Kelly!! She's smoking black and milds and all like she all the way hood now but she SCARED of KELLY?? What the What?? Wait there's more she is dating/messing with TERRANCE J from 106 and park!!! OMGEE where is RICK FOX???? Sidenote: She did rebuild Derwin's career!!! 

Malik "El Debarge" Wright: OMGEE he is doing a downward spiral!!! I don't even think I want to see how this disaster is going to END!! He's sleeping with the owners wife! Drinking way more, making dumb moves, and now he slept with Ti Ti's girl! Ti Ti was super loyal to him now this is about to get sticky watch... Ti Ti walked off super pissed!! I don't know what can happen when you mess over a good friend that KNOWS EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU!! Malik is doing bad! I don't know whats worse Derwin and Melanie or Malik!! Ummmmm Malik by far it seems like he is going to be on drugs soon the way he is going it only makes sense! He is rushing along sooooo BLINDLY!!!

I still love the Game and all it's drama! I wish Melanie and Derwin the best... maybe some couseling for them and Malik!... We are just going to have to see how this season unfolds...SMH

**Smooches**

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Marsha Ambrosious ~ Far away {Deep!!}

Marsha Ambrosious is my girl this video is deep!! A little too deep for me gives me the chills and brings tears to my eyes!! =( With all that being said it's an issue that needs to be addressed, so by all means get it chica!!!!...
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I know times are HARD BUT SHEESH!!!

Soooooo this lady calls 911 to scare her boyfriend into asking her to marry him? What the What??? Girl I mean I know the pickings are slim but sheesh! LOL SMH Tom Foolery at it's BEST!! This is what we're doing in 2011??? LOL
**Smooches**

According to Bossip:

A woman from Chicago’s Northwest Side wanted to start the New Year with a marriage proposal, with help from police. As WBBM’s Julie Mann reports, the woman is now facing criminal charges. Ana Perez, 40, called 911 around 8:30 p.m. on Sunday, claiming her boyfriend was attacking her. When police arrived, she changed her story, admitting she was trying to scare her boyfriend into marrying her. Police in the Grand Central District were not amused, and charged Perez with disorderly conduct. “She called 911 to scare him and have the police force him to marry her,’’ according to Grand Central District police Capt. Grand Central District Capt. Ronald Pontecore. Pontecore said the officers raced to the scene, believing a woman was in danger, “only to find out its something ridiculous like that.’’ The boyfriend, according to police, had no intention of marrying Perez and was in the process of breaking up with her.

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Wale done SNAPPED!!!!

Wale called into Baltimore's 92Q radio station and gave the DJs a piece of his mind. So apparently a local Bmore artist name Bossman made a diss towards him and he blamed the station DJ's for egging it on. Wale was PISSED!!!!!!!!!!! I should have been there to calm my boo down!! 2011 is defientely a year to take whats yours!! Me and Wale are gone get ours HARD WORK and PERKS here we come!!!





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Tyrese gone get cha'

Tyrese is tackling the paparazzi for shooting his princess. The look on little Shayla’s face is priceless...

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Sooooo Amber's knocked up again???

I love Teen Mom especially Amber because she so crazy and her on again off again BF Gary is so STUPID!!! SMH! Anywho there's more Amber is now PREGNANT and get this she doesn't know who her baby daddy it... OMGEE!!!! SMDH

Per Star Magazine:

Just days after regaining custody of her daughter Leah, Teen Mom's Amber Portwood has discovered she's expecting another baby!

In the Dec. 27 issue of Star, on newsstands Wednesday, we reveal the 20-year-old MTV star took a home pregnancy test on Dec. 4 — and it came back positive! "Amber is scared to death about what's to come," an insider tells Star. "She adores Leah, but she doesn't really want to be tied down with another baby."

Amber's baby secret was almost blown on Dec. 10 when she had her first bout of morning sickness. Luckily, her boyfriend, Clinton Yunker, in her hometown of Anderson, Ind., didn't catch on. "He'll freak out if she's pregnant."

To make a bad situation worse, troubled Amber has been with so many guys in the past three months, she has no idea who the father could be. Amber is hoping that her ex-fiancé Gary Shirley turns out to be the father, says the insider. "She thinks they're meant to be together."


Chile if Gary take her back he's even dumber than I thought!!! Sheesh

Fabolous You Be Killen 'em

If I didn't know she was the main star in this video I would have never recognized her!! Who??? Amber Rose! Yep that's her she looks like a totally different person SHEESH!!!
Not to mention how this video does nothing to help with the rumor's that Fabolous and Amber are "together"... Well check out the video below.

Fabolous - You be killin 'em from Bach Tran on Vimeo.

Michael Jordans "response" to LeBron's Commercial...

Michael said that he has nothing to do with this commercial which leaves me to believe that a Cleveland fan with nothing better to do with his/her time made this... Good thing they had their a** handed to them in the game versus Miami lol Sheesh...

Amazon.com is TRIPPING!!!

Amazon.com has customers in an uproar over their online sales of a title dedicated to helping pedophiles get it in with children but SAFELY!!!



“The Pedophiles Guide To Love And Pleasure: A Child-Lover’s Code Of Conduct” reached #96 on the Amazon bestseller list and attracted over 2,000 comments, mostly from enraged Amazon.com shoppers angry that the book was available for sale on the site, even though the content appears to violate two of Amazon’s content guidelines for digital publication.

The book’s author, Phillip R. Greaves II said he actually welcomed the notoriety, in hopes of increased book sales. He claims he wrote the guide to address what he considers unfair mainstream portrayals of pedophiles as monsters:

“True pedophiles love children and would never hurt them,” Greaves said in a phone interview with CNN on Wednesday.

When asked if the self-published e-book was a “how-to manual,” he said, “there are certain parts that are advisory,” which set out lines that should not be crossed.

“Penetration is out. You can’t do that with a child, but kissing and fondling I don’t think is that big of a problem,” he said.

IS HE SERIOUS?????

Greaves, who lives in Pueblo, CO told CNN that he had sexual contact with a child as a teenager, but never as an adult. He also claimed “was introduced to oral sex when I was 7″ by an older female.

SMDH. WHOA!!!!

“In the title’s Amazon.com product description, Greaves described it as “my attempt to make pedophile situations safer for those juveniles that find themselves involved in them, by establishing certian [sic] rules for these adults to follow.”I hope to achieve this by appealing to the better nature of pedosexuals, with hope that their doing so will result in less hatred and perhaps liter [sic] sentences should they ever be caught,” he said.

This is reallyhow he spells!!!

In the book Greaves tells readers, ‘if they are disease free they don’t have to use condoms’.

Use condoms with children!?!?

Amazon.com has been largely quiet about the uproar, but they did release a statement defending their decision to sell the title:

“Amazon does not support or promote hatred or criminal acts, however, we do support the right of every individual to make their own purchasing decisions,” the Seattle-based company said in a statement released to TechCrunch.

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Basketball Wive's Season 2

OMGEEEE!!!!! I LIVE!!!! I loved Tammy when she was on Real World!! Now in no way am I condoning women fighting not at all!! But Ms. Tammy is not to be played with.... Check her out! Thank you VH1 I need this entertainment!! =)

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Giirrrlllll {Kim from RHOA vs Neffe} Enough said

According to Bossip, Neffe must have mistakenly posted the main EATER of all time Kim's personal number and she went off... I don'[t like Kim and don't really care for Neffe so if you care enjoy.

Ginuwine's New Video {Trouble}

Bossip says that this is the song that was supposed to be about the little Lisa Ray situation. I hope not, because for one I love Lisa Ray secondly she never said anything about them being together. She only said people need to stop worrying about the wrong thing. If it is Ginuwine you lame for that. I mean I know you love your wife, but she knows that she ain't gone be the leading lady in every video. Doing stupid things behind unnecessary drama is why Ginuwine will never be who he was... And Sole your career was over before it even started! So Stop it!
Either way Ginuwine you are still fine! LOL

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Toya's {New Boo a Woman Beater?}

Toya (Wayne's ex-wife} finally has a new boo and I am so happy for her because I totally know what it is to be in Love with someone so much that it kind of holds you back from moving on knowing you and the one you love just aren't meant for each other. But where's there's new things there's also new drama and word on the street {Bossip} is that her new boo is an alleged wife beater. Could this be true? Well according to James Hardy's ex girlfriend it is.
Per Bossip:
James decided to set the story straight and said the claims were later dismissed. Apparently an incident with Hardy’s ex girlfriend Kyra caused her to dial 911, and the incident was later deemed as a misunderstanding:

Hardy’s girlfriend, Kyra Nolan, 22, told emergency personnel that Hardy hit her and their infant son, according to a probable-cause affidavit. But during a June 13 hearing she testified that she phoned 911 to “get at” Hardy and said the incident was a “big misunderstanding

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Pastor Troy's a Loser and a User? NecoleBitchie

Karrine "Superhead" Steffans Relationship expert? Crunk and Disorderly

Kat Williams Filed for Bankruptcy? Bossip

Frankie and her Tom Foolery again? FreddyO

Jon {Minus Kate and the 8}

If you had any doubt in your mind that it was over for Jon and Kate here is the proof. Jon is out with his new boo like nothing never happened. Like he isn't still in the beginning stages of a divorce. I must admit I am not even hating, if it isn't one thing I learned if you are not happy, then by all means reach for your happiness, by any means necessary. The only issues I have are the children, and what does this do to Kate's self-esteem as the chick is only 23 years old. So hey do your thang Jon just make sure this is clearly what you want. Once going in if you did get a chance to back there is no chance that it will be like before.

Dorion vs Dorion {P2}

I was trying to keep an open mind and think that all the stuff from the last Dorion fiasco was just a scorned lover and that nothing would never come of it... Boy was I wrong... Now when going onto Twitter there are 3 Dorion Pages. The real Dorion, The Scorned Lover, and then there's the scorned lover's back up page just in case twitter shuts down the other one for all the explicit pictures. I follow all three. (GNR) anywho... On scorned lover's page the new profile picture is Crazy, but in the Real Dorion's defense you can't really see the person's face, more like a side view so it may very well be someone else. If this is Dorion and he wanted to front as if he was straight then why on earth would he tell anyone better half or not about this knowing he could get exposed? But to see the picture you have to click read more. Consider this your warning as this is yet another very explicit picture.

Dorion Dorion Dorion {Twitter's Hacked}

Sooooo I'm minding my own business, had a doctor's appointment at 7:30 in the morning yesterday. I was so sleepy not to mention the fact that I got off at 3am then my doctor is super slow. I think he's about the same age as dirt. Anyway I digress. I turned to My Twitter community to tell them hello and good morning when BAM it went down. (Literally) I think it was Whatsthet who turned my attention to it. (He always keeps you updated.) Anywho Dorion from Bet's College Hill Atlanta had naked photo's all over his page. The person who hacked his account said he was gay, had A.I.D.'s and posted celebrity phone numbers and addresses (which by the way weren't real). It was just a messy mess to say he least. Not to say I didn't enjoy the morning Tea, but still what a mess. Dorion went on Atlanta's V103 morning show{Listen Here},
Which didn't help clear the air which was what he was trying to do. *sigh*
Dorion got on his account erased all the non-sense changed his number and prayed to put this stuff behind him. Sooo again I go on My Twitter that night to tell my friends good night and low and behold what do I find? The fake Dorion page with the pictures back up and all. {Fake page}
*Faints*
***Warning what you are about to see is very explicit*** If you want to continue then by all means please click




According to Market Wire:

"I was so embarrassed when I realized what had happened. Not just for myself, but embarrassed for my family as well. I've heard several stories about people's computers being hacked, but I never thought in a million years that this could happen to me. I wish there was something I could have done on my end to prevent this," says Standberry on Atlanta's V103 morning show.

The alleged hacker, rumored to be an ex boyfriend of Standberry, not only posted nude photos of Dorion, he/she also began posting the names and phone numbers of his celebrity friends such as Christina Milian, Kyla Pratt, Nicole Richie and Tyson Beckford on Twitter.

WPHI 100.3 the Beat morning host and former co-host of the Wendy Williams Experience, Charlamagne Tha God, is known for his politically incorrect views and potentially dangerous rhetoric. Although at times deemed facetious, Charlamagne understands the importance of cyber security and being fully protected from the potential dangers of cyber crime.

Here is one of the twitts that were typed last night. You can now see why I am truly *dead*

Per Drama Dupree:
DORIONS dick fucked me to sleep... GOOD NITE TWITTERVILLE... KISSES ON DORIONS DICK ... OOPS IT KISSED ME BACK... LOL
about 12 hours ago from TweetDeck