Let Love Find A Way... {Titles}

The DILEMMA: He says "Be patient, I promise it's real." She says "give me a title or I'm OUT" Even if he's "Dream Guy, do I stay or let go?"

Whats in the title? I have been in relationships where we were soooo good, then when we gave it a title it went to hell. I've witnessed couples who were perfect as a "couple" but when they decided to take it to the next level and get married, "EVERYTHING CHANGED!!"

We tend to put labels on things for the outsiders looking in. Especially for other women we have to say we ARE something as a unit, just for the other girls not to have you and your life to gossip about. Its one thing to be happy but I don't think we always need a definition for everything, the best things in life aren't forced and they just go with the flow.

Me and My "him" were at our best when I wasn't worried about anything or anybody. At one point in time I started trying to define us and I was putting pressure on us to be more then what we were. When we were flowing we were happy, HAPPY HAPPY!! Then I started listening to those around me, digging for stuff that wasn't there putting unnecessary pressure on us almost ending us. Of course we found our way back, but I won't make that mistake again!!

Titles don't make or break anything! Who cares about the title more then likely the title puts you up to the worlds standards of where your "relationship" should be at. Go with your own flow, let the chips fall where they may. Knowing that you decided to do everything on your own in your world makes your situation even more better! Choosing to smile and separate yourself from the world is going to make the LOVE just that much better!

It's 2011 make your own rules! Take your own life into your own hands! I promise you title or no title as long as it's you and them against the world you will always be happy and REMAIN that way!!

xo :)

The LITTLE Things...

    I was on the phone with my boo, and of course she was complaining about a friend sending her some flowers! She HATES it with a passion to get flowers and stuff like that. Her theory is that the flowers will die so why waste your money? OK I get that, but me on the other hand I am whole different type of chick! The smaller the things, I feel like the effort was put in and thought and that's all that matters!!! For my boo to get me something because he wants Me to smile and think of him a little bit more means the WORLD to me! Makes me beyond happy!! I don't brag to no one else or anything I just walk past my "small thing" and smile!! :)

    I feel like theres so much love in thinking enough of me to get something you know I'd love just because! I used to be that girl, I used to think of my "honey" whenever I was out! Wanted to get him something just because I just KNEW he'd smile!! Somewhere along the line I guess I got comfortable and forgot about how much he would smile when I did the little things. We even had a conversation about it and he said I'm not that girl anymore, He'd come home and something new would be laid out or whatever. I guess I got complacent in just doing the norm. It made me sad to think I got comfortable and I am now working on it!!

   At the end of the day Wale said "New love is so beautiful, time just makes it ugly..." I think that about sums it up! We get good and complacent forgetting the small things leaving us to think that the love is no longer there...

*XO*

Dying in the name of {LOVE...}

 
   Sooo I was watching Grey's Anatomy and there were two young adults on their both have multiple sclerosis. According to the show if both of them have Multiple Sclerosis they can't date because its only contagious between them. Loving each other will always keep them sick!!! The guy was up for new lungs but he had to choose between his love life or new lungs and he had to think about it. The doctor gave him an ultimatum and he went with the lungs. They knew he was going to go back to his girlfriend after he healed.

  I really thought about this what would i do? Would I leave what seems to be the love of my life, or would I leave him all together and try starting a new life without my "soul mate?" Being the chick that I am and how much LOVE impacts my world I would be devastated, but I'd choose life. I believe GOD does everything for a reason and the fact that loving him would kill me would be a sign from GOD that he is not my destiny!!

  Love is real, Love is strong, Love is HARD! True Love is worth dying for, but are you really supposed too? What if you made the decision and it was the wrong decision. Now you lost your love and your life!!

What do you think??

Quote of the DAY...

Sometimes Love just isn't ENOUGH... 

Love yourself first ALWAYS,

ForeverTrue1981